Guide to oral sex

[gmb45]

IF you want to share oral sex with your partner but wonder how to go about it, you first need to be sure this is something you feel comfortable with and really want to do for your own pleasure as well as your partner?s.

Don?t feel pressured into trying it just because your partner likes the idea or says everyone does it.

Many couples find it one of the most pleasurable ways of giving and receiving sexual stimulation, but the relationship between you has to be very close and loving for this very intimate form of contact to feel right.

If you?re the one who?s keen to try oral sex but your partner isn?t, then read my free leaflet Tensions Over Oral Sex? before putting on any more pressure.

Assuming you are both equally keen to enjoy oral sex and just lack the know-how, here?s a practical guide, starting with giving a woman oral sex.

Many women enjoy this more than intercourse and a man who gives good oral sex can be a wonderful lover.

Even so, as I mentioned before, you do need to feel comfortable together, and this is usually going to be within a secure, loving relationship, where you both trust each other.

Before getting started it?s a good idea to wash all over, including all the nooks and crannies, with mild soap and rinse off with plenty of water.

Women are often slower to become aroused than men, so she will most likely need lots of loving foreplay for her to start getting aroused ? so don?t rush. It?s not a race.

A sensuous massage can be a good way of getting her in the mood for exciting foreplay.

For the first time, it is a good idea if you can have at least a low light on, so that you can see the layout and have a better idea of what you are doing.

Most women find their clitoris very sensitive and you need to know where this is.

It is the small pea-sized bit tucked in front of the vagina.

You will need to use lots of saliva to keep the area moist but you can start with licking the entire area.

Use your hand to caress her thighs, her breasts or her stomach to add to the pleasure for her.

Gentle sucking will feel great. A word of warning, though, never blow into her vagina, as this can be harmful.

Ask her whether she likes it slow or fast, gentle or firm, but keep up a steady rhythm, as women need continual stimulation to reach climax.

You can flatten your tongue to stimulate larger areas, or use the tip to concentrate on more specific areas.

You will be able to tell when she is near orgasm by her groans of pleasure, or by her rhythmic movements.

At this point it is important not to move away from the clitoris.

Increase the pressure slightly or go a little quicker.

As she is actually orgasming, go back to slow gentle strokes, but continue to cover the whole clitoral area by using your whole tongue.

Most women find that their clitoris is unbearably sensitive after orgasm, so she may push your head away and put her hand down to cover the area.

Don?t worry. This doesn?t mean she has not enjoyed it, exactly the opposite, in fact.

Now a guide for a woman wanting to give a man oral sex.

It is usually best to start with the man on his back and you leaning over him. This will give you most control and help you build up your confidence.

Remember you don?t have to do anything you don?t want to.

Start off with something simple, to get you in the mood.

Hold his penis at the base with one hand, and lick up each side several times as if it were an ice-cream cone.

Then you could form your mouth into an 0 and gently slide your lips up and down.

Don?t rush, going slowly gives him a lot of pleasure. Try sucking and licking with different pressures and at different speeds.

A variation is to swirl your tongue round the top as your head comes up. He will love this.

Changing movements can stop you getting tired too quickly.

The butterfly flick is different and gives your lips a rest.

This involves flicking your tongue gently along the ridge on the underside, and ending with several rapid flicks at the point where the head joins the main shaft.

This will be absolute heaven for him.

You don?t have to give oral sex non-stop.

Pausing from time to time to caress and fondle him all over can tease him to further pleasure.

There is no rule about whether your man should climax in your mouth or not, and if you are not happy with it, then fine.

Make it clear from the start, so that there is no misunderstanding.

Never blow into his penis by the way, as this can be dangerous.

Oral sex is not completely safe sex, I?m afraid.

It would be a very unlikely ? though not impossible - way to pass on HIV, but you should avoid oral sex if there is the possibility of one of you having any sort of sexually transmitted infection, being HIV positive, and if you have any cuts or scratches around the mouth or genital area.

If one of you has cold sores, you could give the other genital herpes, and the other way about ? oral sex is now a very common method of transmission of herpes - and it is certainly possible to develop gonorrhoea in the throat.

There has even been some research suggesting that giving unprotected oral sex to a partner with HPV (genital warts, which can be almost invisible to the naked eye) can lead to mouth cancer.

You can use a dental dam, a thin square of latex, to protect against infection but, if there's any chance one of you may be suffering from an infection of any kind, you shouldn't have sexual contact without getting expert treatment and advice.

The best place is probably your local genito-urinary or special clinic, which will be attached to a local hospital.

And just to be clear, if a man gives or receives oral sex from a girl under 16, he could be charged with an offence.

Similarly an older woman with a younger lad might be liable to prosecution.

If I can be of further help, or you?d like one of the other free leaflets I mentioned, just let me know.

[zaphodbb]

IF you want to share oral sex with your partner but wonder how to go about it, you first need to be sure this is something you feel comfortable with and really want to do for your own pleasure as well as your partner?s.

Don?t feel pressured into trying it just because your partner likes the idea or says everyone does it.

Many couples find it one of the most pleasurable ways of giving and receiving sexual stimulation, but the relationship between you has to be very close and loving for this very intimate form of contact to feel right.

If you?re the one who?s keen to try oral sex but your partner isn?t, then read my free leaflet Tensions Over Oral Sex? before putting on any more pressure.

Assuming you are both equally keen to enjoy oral sex and just lack the know-how, here?s a practical guide, starting with giving a woman oral sex.

Many women enjoy this more than intercourse and a man who gives good oral sex can be a wonderful lover.

Even so, as I mentioned before, you do need to feel comfortable together, and this is usually going to be within a secure, loving relationship, where you both trust each other.

Before getting started it?s a good idea to wash all over, including all the nooks and crannies, with mild soap and rinse off with plenty of water.

Women are often slower to become aroused than men, so she will most likely need lots of loving foreplay for her to start getting aroused ? so don?t rush. It?s not a race.

A sensuous massage can be a good way of getting her in the mood for exciting foreplay.

For the first time, it is a good idea if you can have at least a low light on, so that you can see the layout and have a better idea of what you are doing.

Most women find their clitoris very sensitive and you need to know where this is.

It is the small pea-sized bit tucked in front of the vagina.

You will need to use lots of saliva to keep the area moist but you can start with licking the entire area.

Use your hand to caress her thighs, her breasts or her stomach to add to the pleasure for her.

Gentle sucking will feel great. A word of warning, though, never blow into her vagina, as this can be harmful.

Ask her whether she likes it slow or fast, gentle or firm, but keep up a steady rhythm, as women need continual stimulation to reach climax.

You can flatten your tongue to stimulate larger areas, or use the tip to concentrate on more specific areas.

You will be able to tell when she is near orgasm by her groans of pleasure, or by her rhythmic movements.

At this point it is important not to move away from the clitoris.

Increase the pressure slightly or go a little quicker.

As she is actually orgasming, go back to slow gentle strokes, but continue to cover the whole clitoral area by using your whole tongue.

Most women find that their clitoris is unbearably sensitive after orgasm, so she may push your head away and put her hand down to cover the area.

Don?t worry. This doesn?t mean she has not enjoyed it, exactly the opposite, in fact.

Now a guide for a woman wanting to give a man oral sex.

It is usually best to start with the man on his back and you leaning over him. This will give you most control and help you build up your confidence.

Remember you don?t have to do anything you don?t want to.

Start off with something simple, to get you in the mood.

Hold his penis at the base with one hand, and lick up each side several times as if it were an ice-cream cone.

Then you could form your mouth into an 0 and gently slide your lips up and down.

Don?t rush, going slowly gives him a lot of pleasure. Try sucking and licking with different pressures and at different speeds.

A variation is to swirl your tongue round the top as your head comes up. He will love this.

Changing movements can stop you getting tired too quickly.

The butterfly flick is different and gives your lips a rest.

This involves flicking your tongue gently along the ridge on the underside, and ending with several rapid flicks at the point where the head joins the main shaft.

This will be absolute heaven for him.

You don?t have to give oral sex non-stop.

Pausing from time to time to caress and fondle him all over can tease him to further pleasure.

There is no rule about whether your man should climax in your mouth or not, and if you are not happy with it, then fine.

Make it clear from the start, so that there is no misunderstanding.

Never blow into his penis by the way, as this can be dangerous.

Oral sex is not completely safe sex, I?m afraid.

It would be a very unlikely ? though not impossible - way to pass on HIV, but you should avoid oral sex if there is the possibility of one of you having any sort of sexually transmitted infection, being HIV positive, and if you have any cuts or scratches around the mouth or genital area.

If one of you has cold sores, you could give the other genital herpes, and the other way about ? oral sex is now a very common method of transmission of herpes - and it is certainly possible to develop gonorrhoea in the throat.

There has even been some research suggesting that giving unprotected oral sex to a partner with HPV (genital warts, which can be almost invisible to the naked eye) can lead to mouth cancer.

You can use a dental dam, a thin square of latex, to protect against infection but, if there's any chance one of you may be suffering from an infection of any kind, you shouldn't have sexual contact without getting expert treatment and advice.

The best place is probably your local genito-urinary or special clinic, which will be attached to a local hospital.

And just to be clear, if a man gives or receives oral sex from a girl under 16, he could be charged with an offence.

Similarly an older woman with a younger lad might be liable to prosecution.

If I can be of further help, or you?d like one of the other free leaflets I mentioned, just let me know.

breakfast in the bush, yodeling up the canyon. you seem to be posting a lot of threads of a sexual nature gmb, is there something you would like to share with your fellow pt's :roflmao:

[gmb45]

breakfast in the bush, yodeling up the canyon. you seem to be posting a lot of threads of a sexual nature gmb, is there something you would like to share with your fellow pt's :roflmao: yeh m8 just odeed on viagra lol

[forntida]

If I can be of further help, or you?d like one of the other free leaflets I mentioned, just let me know.


Should I take my false teeth out first?

[gmb45]

Should I take my false teeth out first? yeh m8 makes the experience a lot better, the missus had hers removed :D

[Lainie]

no comment in an open forum - can we have an over 18 room please esp for gmb - the mans obsessed lol

[gmb45]

no comment in an open forum - can we have an over 18 room please esp for gmb - the mans obsessed lol they seem to generate lots of interest especially from u :D

[Lainie]

oh much as i would love to reply and give my opinion im not going too - unless one of the other girls does first!!

[Yumraaj]

Hi lainie, forntida has already replied, so what's stopping you?

[forntida]

Hi lainie, forntida has already replied, so what's stopping you?


Are you insinuating that I am a woman?:roflmao:

[MetalKettle]

IF you want to share oral sex with your partner but wonder how to go about it, you first need to be sure this is something you feel comfortable with and really want to do for your own pleasure as well as your partner?s.

Don?t feel pressured into trying it just because your partner likes the idea or says everyone does it.

Many couples find it one of the most pleasurable ways of giving and receiving sexual stimulation, but the relationship between you has to be very close and loving for this very intimate form of contact to feel right.

If you?re the one who?s keen to try oral sex but your partner isn?t, then read my free leaflet Tensions Over Oral Sex? before putting on any more pressure.

Assuming you are both equally keen to enjoy oral sex and just lack the know-how, here?s a practical guide, starting with giving a woman oral sex.

Many women enjoy this more than intercourse and a man who gives good oral sex can be a wonderful lover.

Even so, as I mentioned before, you do need to feel comfortable together, and this is usually going to be within a secure, loving relationship, where you both trust each other.

Before getting started it?s a good idea to wash all over, including all the nooks and crannies, with mild soap and rinse off with plenty of water.

Women are often slower to become aroused than men, so she will most likely need lots of loving foreplay for her to start getting aroused ? so don?t rush. It?s not a race.

A sensuous massage can be a good way of getting her in the mood for exciting foreplay.

For the first time, it is a good idea if you can have at least a low light on, so that you can see the layout and have a better idea of what you are doing.

Most women find their clitoris very sensitive and you need to know where this is.

It is the small pea-sized bit tucked in front of the vagina.

You will need to use lots of saliva to keep the area moist but you can start with licking the entire area.

Use your hand to caress her thighs, her breasts or her stomach to add to the pleasure for her.

Gentle sucking will feel great. A word of warning, though, never blow into her vagina, as this can be harmful.

Ask her whether she likes it slow or fast, gentle or firm, but keep up a steady rhythm, as women need continual stimulation to reach climax.

You can flatten your tongue to stimulate larger areas, or use the tip to concentrate on more specific areas.

You will be able to tell when she is near orgasm by her groans of pleasure, or by her rhythmic movements.

At this point it is important not to move away from the clitoris.

Increase the pressure slightly or go a little quicker.

As she is actually orgasming, go back to slow gentle strokes, but continue to cover the whole clitoral area by using your whole tongue.

Most women find that their clitoris is unbearably sensitive after orgasm, so she may push your head away and put her hand down to cover the area.

Don?t worry. This doesn?t mean she has not enjoyed it, exactly the opposite, in fact.

Now a guide for a woman wanting to give a man oral sex.

It is usually best to start with the man on his back and you leaning over him. This will give you most control and help you build up your confidence.

Remember you don?t have to do anything you don?t want to.

Start off with something simple, to get you in the mood.

Hold his penis at the base with one hand, and lick up each side several times as if it were an ice-cream cone.

Then you could form your mouth into an 0 and gently slide your lips up and down.

Don?t rush, going slowly gives him a lot of pleasure. Try sucking and licking with different pressures and at different speeds.

A variation is to swirl your tongue round the top as your head comes up. He will love this.

Changing movements can stop you getting tired too quickly.

The butterfly flick is different and gives your lips a rest.

This involves flicking your tongue gently along the ridge on the underside, and ending with several rapid flicks at the point where the head joins the main shaft.

This will be absolute heaven for him.

You don?t have to give oral sex non-stop.

Pausing from time to time to caress and fondle him all over can tease him to further pleasure.

There is no rule about whether your man should climax in your mouth or not, and if you are not happy with it, then fine.

Make it clear from the start, so that there is no misunderstanding.

Never blow into his penis by the way, as this can be dangerous.

Oral sex is not completely safe sex, I?m afraid.

It would be a very unlikely ? though not impossible - way to pass on HIV, but you should avoid oral sex if there is the possibility of one of you having any sort of sexually transmitted infection, being HIV positive, and if you have any cuts or scratches around the mouth or genital area.

If one of you has cold sores, you could give the other genital herpes, and the other way about ? oral sex is now a very common method of transmission of herpes - and it is certainly possible to develop gonorrhoea in the throat.

There has even been some research suggesting that giving unprotected oral sex to a partner with HPV (genital warts, which can be almost invisible to the naked eye) can lead to mouth cancer.

You can use a dental dam, a thin square of latex, to protect against infection but, if there's any chance one of you may be suffering from an infection of any kind, you shouldn't have sexual contact without getting expert treatment and advice.

The best place is probably your local genito-urinary or special clinic, which will be attached to a local hospital.

And just to be clear, if a man gives or receives oral sex from a girl under 16, he could be charged with an offence.

Similarly an older woman with a younger lad might be liable to prosecution.

If I can be of further help, or you?d like one of the other free leaflets I mentioned, just let me know.

Got a stiffy now !!

[andy4]

jr to much info m8 :puke:

[MetalKettle]

jr to much info m8 :puke:

lol

didnt know if anyone wanted to practice?

:knuddel:

[andy4]

ask dwayne when he logs on lol

[MetalKettle]

ask dwayne when he logs on lol

Have you seen his teeth?............ NO WAY !!!

lol

[zaphodbb]

ask dwayne when he logs on lol

:roflmao: thats gonna stay around for a bit andy dwayne :roflmao:

[Lainie]

stiffys -- mmm love em

THE DRINK THAT IS

http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i203/lainiebabez/stiffy_splash.jpg

kola kubez flavour - delicious

[MetalKettle]

Hay, look at Veteran Lainie all green ;)

[zaphodbb]

stiffys -- mmm love em

THE DRINK THAT IS

http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i203/lainiebabez/stiffy_splash.jpg

kola kubez flavour - delicious

that stiffy has turned you green lainie well done :top:

[Lainie]

think thats a diff thread altogether lol

[maca]

is that green with envy lol

[Bulld0g]

Typical gmb pt Dwayne thread this :roflmao: Who else would post a thread like this...... well apart from anyone of dk's pts lol

[zaphodbb]

oral sex is just an anagram of axl rose so rock on :thrasher:

[Bulld0g]

oral sex is just an anagram of axl rose so rock on :thrasher:

Wasn't there a thread on useless facts Zap lol

[zaphodbb]

Wasn't there a thread on useless facts Zap lol

thats an interesting fact bd :roflmao:

[maca]

fact that this thread is usless lol

[chroma]

I'm a cunning linguist ;) ships certified muff diver.

I got called Drambuie back in college because and i quote "im a fancy liquor."

I thoroughly enjoy giving head, ive gotten seriously good at it and know first hand theres no magical way to do it, its all based on observations.
some women like strong clitoral stimulation, some prefer strictly labial stimulation, some like to go more internal towards cervical stimulation.

Best advice? get to know someone, and get down to it. pay attention to her reactions to different stimulus and take it from there, everyones undercariage is built and wired completely differently, theres no univeral button to press.

best advice though is not to go straight in for the kill, prime the grenade first before you toss it over the wall. i generaly start down at someones feet or neck and slowly work my way towards her genitalia, spending a lot of time around her thighs, inching closer then pulling a retreat, eventualy the pelvic thrusts start and you know shes ready and slowly advance.
Then start experimenting till you find a technique that works.

I spent weeks infront of a fogged mirror writing messages with the tip of my tongue till it became ledgaible, then tranfered that over to an old ex girlfriend who eventualy learned to decypher lovenotes written down there :) took months of work to achieve from both of us but its still pretty cool.

I'm outstanding at cunnilingus, but then again i have to be cause im hung like a budgies tongue :( ive put more time into oral sex than just about anything else in my life, ive never had a decent ~~~~~~~ though in return, anyone ive ever been with seems to think its bound to be easy but i guess its harder than it looks.

[Lainie]

most men who say they are brill at it are normally talking pish lol

[.: JaCkPoT :.]

Im starting t think things about gmb now..serious!

[forntida]

Im starting t think things about gmb now..serious!

There should be a Counsellor at your school you could go and see Sadiq.:D

[Mr Pumpy]

Its been in Telegraph today that some MP's have claimed for oral sex in their expenses.

[Mr Pumpy]

My previous post was a total fabrication and I apologize to the many MP's that are members of dk.:D

[mtv1]

:laugh:good on m8 like president i did not have sexual relations with that woman :D

[Mr Pumpy]

:laugh:good on m8 like president i did not have sexual relations with that woman :D

Monika Lewinsky... She were lovely.

[.: JaCkPoT :.]

There should be a Counsellor at your school you could go and see Sadiq.:D

we have many of em in our school....

[Yumraaj]

Sadiq when you said "we have many of em in our school...." Thought you meant many of Monica Lewinsky!!!:hmmmm:

[.: JaCkPoT :.]

Dont get it? Whats the funny bit of that?

[gmb45]

most men who say they are brill at it are normally talking pish lol think so ? well i can lick my eyebrows :D

[chroma]

think so ? well i can lick my eyebrows :D

You woke up with them shaved off and stuck in your mouth too???? sucks when that happens huh?