relatonship breakdown.......

[mamanacusa]

.......looks my 16 year relationship with our maude is over.

i am fairly cut up about it, and she aint overly chuffed either.

dont know why im posting it, but hey, i have.

mick.

10 years over here mate, she got tired of my effort and working hard life! They don't deserve any effort we made in order to have a better future! I believe they are like fishes and suffer from short memory syndrome, after 2 seconds after eating they forgot what's happening few seconds ago. Anyway, **** them and life goes on. It hurts, it does but if they are not up to the effort and to be aside of us along they way, they don't need to collect the fruits of our work.

[Lainie]

i really do know how you feel mick. i was with my ex for 22 yrs (married for 17 of them) when he told me he didnt love me. i gave him everything, worked all the overtime i could to make a better life for us and holidays etc. he didnt work for 17 yrs due to heart op but in all honesty he was fitter than me.


i had to hide it from my family and friends as everyone thought we were still in love etc. i got used to painting a smile on.


however ive been with my boyfriend for 3 yrs now. ive never asked a man for anything in my life but love.

i sincerely hope you have the strengh to get through your diff time and pm me if i can help in any way.

thinking of you.


Lainie


xxx

[wetdog]

match.com...............

mick.

[Evastar]

hey sorry to hear your news mick, just hang on in there, it does get easier after a while.

maybe you will both realise that you are right for each other and get back together and maybe you won't; maybe you will meet someone else that you will be happy with; nobody ever knows what life holds for them.

[Canker_Canison]

I believe everything happens for a reason. Be that through stupidity or no fault of your own.

I've been through quite a few rough break ups. Don't know why, but I always seem to attract the mental cases.

But if I hadn't gone through all the rough stuff, I wouldn't of met the one I'm with now. Just over a year down the line & we've never had an argument...not one. I've never been so relaxed in a relationship.

If you both feel it's over, then don't try to force it. Over the next several months you may come back together. Just prepare yourself for the possibility that she might find someone else. Don't be bitter, you have a lot of history, you may have lost a partner...but you don't have to lose a friend.

If in time you do start looking, don't be looking for that serious relationship. Keep it light & causal, don't be pressured into a situation that makes you uncomfortable.

Forget match.com if looking on-line. My way of thinking is that if you pay for something, you will expect more. I'd go down the free dating sites first, freedating.co.uk appears to be totally free, just not sure what mingers you might find swimming the murky depths.

I've done on-line dating. My best bit of advice.... be yourself. Don't lie or put up a front, let them know who you are.

Good luck

[johnboy1974]

mick when a door closes another one always opens up. As oasis said on their song the masterplan- Four and twenty million doors on lifes endless corridors. Best of luck mate.

[lagerland]

Good luck mick stiff upper lip and all that be lucky.................

[Shady]

Just over a year down the line & we've never had an argument...not one. I've never been so relaxed in a relationship.

what NEVER? never EVER?
summat wrong with her mate; bin her quick

[Canker_Canison]

what NEVER? never EVER?
summat wrong with her mate; bin her quick

I missed her psychotic days. Even she describes herself as a metal case of the past. Time of the month was a very dangerous time for anyone near her.

After a wrestling match with a Vax she's a different person. So relaxed, even when stressed.... and it means playtime is never interrupted by the crimson wave.

[gc1966]

sorry to hear of your break up pal

3lb of raw liver
appropriate size jar for said liver
and a good ~~~~ site
sorted


always remember that all women are mental,just some are a bit more mental than others
never trust a breed that bleeds for five days a month and does not die

[gc1966]

as for match.com
turn the ~~~~ing telly off m8

[gc1966]

canker must be going out with a mute

lucky bastard

[daithi]

sorry to hear about this mate must be tough
have a friend in work in a similar circumstance only hes married with kids
strange how things pan out
im getting married next month love the missus to bits
probably just like the few on here when there relationships started
amazing how it can go so pear shaped down the road
hope it never happens to me

[Canker_Canison]

sorry to hear about this mate must be tough
have a friend in work in a similar circumstance only hes married with kids
strange how things pan out
im getting married next month love the missus to bits
probably just like the few on here when there relationships started
amazing how it can go so pear shaped down the road
hope it never happens to me

Don't you mean 'to us'?

Oh, ohh! Someone's gonna be in trouble

It's the little things that cause the most trouble