am i homophobic

[johnboy1974]

About a year ago i had to see a doctor as i was bleeding from my back passage when i done a number 2. So off to the docs i went. Well he gave me the rubber glove treatment and it turned out to be nothing and soon cleared up.
I recently found out that the doctor who checked me was gay, and now i think i would not want him to do the same thing again if i was bleeding from back passage again. I think i would ask for another doctor. I have no problem whatsover with gay people but does this stance make me homophobic.

[RedSpider]

yes. you're refusing to deal with him solely because he is one of the gays.
it is, of course, your prerogative to sign up to another gp but just don't go around saying its because you're scared of houses

[masur123]

You sure it was his finger he used?

[johnboy1974]

yes. you're refusing to deal with him solely because he is one of the gays.
it is, of course, your prerogative to sign up to another gp but just don't go around saying its because you're scared of houses

spider im not saying i wont deal with him again only for problems where he might be poking about in my backside.

[racin-snake]

not at all mate it is after all your jeer

but if it makes you uncomfortable then yes ask for a different practitioner (its your choice)

i wouldn't like to think you would deny yourself any kind of treatment because you feel discomfort when you actually have to be examined in intimate places (for any reason)
nowt to do with homophobia

but above all that don't be put off being checked for any perceived health problems mate

your health is far more important than anyone's sexual preference
don't deny your health for these reasons simply ask for another doctor

as women can ask for female practitioners to examine then in these cases .....where they feel uncomfortable ...why cant men ?

[RedSpider]

spider im not saying i wont deal with him again only for problems where he might be poking about in my backside.

well what about if you've a penile problem? do you want him to touch your bits?

what about a mouth problem? what if he tries to put his tongue (or something much worse) in your mouth while he's looking inside?

what if he licks his lips all seductively everytime he talks to you?

the point is that either you're grown up enough to trust him as a doctor whatever his orientation or you're not

[barrowmanandrew]

as s long as he didn't seem to enjoy it too much i wouldn't worry...

he didn't lick his fingers afterwords did he..

[jcgrumbles]

Or have a cigarette...

[Snowy79]

I had a similar test from a male Doctor. He said 'It was normal to get an erection whilst the test is carried out.' I said 'It's OK i won't get one' but he replied ' No but I will.'

[patkins]

Johnboy,your post would suggest that you may be of a mind that gays fancy 'all' males-I'm not being funny when I say that you may not be his type,however you should seek another doctor if this is a problem.

[johnboy1974]

Johnboy,your post would suggest that you may be of a mind that gays fancy 'all' males-I'm not being funny when I say that you may not be his type,however you should seek another doctor if this is a problem.

pat as i said i dont have a problem with gay men in fact i know a few gay folk and i get on fine with them its just i dont like the thought of a gay doctor poking about my back passage or private parts. Look at it like this, if a female is to be examined in her privates by a male doctor in the uk then a female nurse has to be present at all times.

[RedSpider]

the question is, johnnyboy, what do you suppose he used as lubricant to ease his finger up your rear?

.... surely not..... irrrr...., that's disgusting!!!!

[maca]

pat as i said i dont have a problem with gay men in fact i know a few gay folk and i get on fine with them its just i dont like the thought of a gay doctor poking about my back passage or private parts. Look at it like this, if a female is to be examined in her privates by a male doctor in the uk then a female nurse has to be present at all times.

Yea ok we get it..Im not gay but all my mates are nudge nudge wink wink stick your finger where it stinks

[Lainie]

pat as i said i dont have a problem with gay men in fact i know a few gay folk and i get on fine with them its just i dont like the thought of a gay doctor poking about my back passage or private parts. Look at it like this, if a female is to be examined in her privates by a male doctor in the uk then a female nurse has to be present at all times.

yeah i see your point re male doc and a nurse having to be present. do you have the right to know your docs sexuality??? tricky one

[thered]

if you are homophobic that is your perogative

it pisses me off in this pc world that we cant have an opinion on things

here is mine

i do not mind gay people i know a few and i am comfortable in their company and have had a few chuckles with them

But i find it horrible when they flirt kiss touch each other it makes my skin crawl what they do in the privacy of their home i do not care about it is up to them but i do not want to see it btw them 2 in eastenders get right on my tits why do we need to see em canoodling all the time


on a personal note i think what they are doing is wrong it is not natural we are all here to reproduce but that is my opinion i do not let it prejudice me against them i just dont like too see it on public display

















it gets me too horny