I'm 20 and I quite like this guy who's 45 (I know people will be quick to judge but whatever) we're both single. He works in a hotel bar, some of my friends work as the entertainment staff doing shows there so at least once a week I go watch a show which is how I met this guy.... He never let's me pay for my drinks or tip him, and he's told the other barstaff to not charge me too, he says I'm practically part of the hotel family and they dont charge family.
We talk and get on well, and sometimes we catch each other like looking at each other and we both laugh. Last night I was about to go home and he kissed me on the cheek (he is spanish so thats pretty normal though) and gave me another drink and said to wait another hour coz he finishes then so I was like hmm ok. When he was finishing he brought a shot over for me (i don't usually do shots so this was a random thing) and he had one too then asked me if I wanted to go for a quick drink somewhere else so I said yeah.
We walked to this other bar and when we were there another one of his work mates was already there and sat with us, so I don't know if he invited me out like just us 2 and we just bumped into this guy or if he already knew he was there and it was just a friendly communal thing... I don't mind anyway! So the three of us sat talking..
. And at one point he stood with his arm around me like hugging me but only for like a min. Then after a couple of drinks he said he had to go coz he had work early but said 'but this weekend we can drink until whenever!' (so I guess we're going out again?!) and well that's it really! I just cant figure out if he likes me or if he's just really friendly!!! How can I tell?! (without asking him bluntly or making a move ha!)
We talk and get on well, and sometimes we catch each other like looking at each other and we both laugh. Last night I was about to go home and he kissed me on the cheek (he is spanish so thats pretty normal though) and gave me another drink and said to wait another hour coz he finishes then so I was like hmm ok. When he was finishing he brought a shot over for me (i don't usually do shots so this was a random thing) and he had one too then asked me if I wanted to go for a quick drink somewhere else so I said yeah.
We walked to this other bar and when we were there another one of his work mates was already there and sat with us, so I don't know if he invited me out like just us 2 and we just bumped into this guy or if he already knew he was there and it was just a friendly communal thing... I don't mind anyway! So the three of us sat talking..
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