Our Current Stance On Posts In the Shout Box

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  • satsmo
    V.I.P. Member
    • Jun 2008
    • 6397

    #1

    Our Current Stance On Posts In the Shout Box

    It has come to our attention that the shout box has been used recently as a place to have a go at other members.

    When I say, have a go, I do not mean the usual messing that goes on in there as banter between our resident lunatics. I specifically mean what went on this morning when one member told another that they were not liked here and the reason was because they posted in a manner that they thought was illegible when all could read it perfectly.

    It is some of our V.I.P. members whom have taken a dislike to this particular member because she spends so much time in our SB? And because she has been seen as clocking posts to gain a ranking of veteran?

    Truth is we do not care about post count, we know whom the real clockers are, BUT we do care about respect amongst members and VIP members should be the first to be aware of this as they became VIPs because of some of these reasons.

    The SB has also seen a lot of censorship of late and a lot of words/phrases have been censored by us and as a result are no longer allowed. However a new word seems to take the place of the now censored words. All I can say on that matter is that we are all adults here, (well the majority proclaim to be), but we do have a younger audience also so could you all keep the SB a bit cleaner at least until the watershed. It's not a hard ask and would be appreciated by all of us.

    You can have your banter as usual and throw your few uncensored fracas after a reasonable hour. We do not want to become the PC brigade but there must be an amicable meeting point.

    On a more serious note, we will not tolerate any further remarks directed at individuals that shows a complete lack of respect towards them. DK has been built on the foundation of friendliness and respect especially from old to not so old members and new members alike.

    We do not have a report button in the shout box but there is usually one of us about and a pm will be answered fairly quickly and the SB will be moderated if required. For any thing that requires reporting on the forum the report button is there for that specific reason. We do a fairly good job of moderating the forum so please leave it for us to do so.

    It's a pity that we must post a thread like this in the first place and I never thought we would have to do so.

    However, this is our current stance on these issues, future posts of this nature will lead to an infraction, (as per our rules), after that a ban will follow. The ban may be temporary however dependent on what is posted a ban may be permanent and without a warning.

    We will listen to valid opinions but our decision on this matter is final.
    Last edited by satsmo; 2 November, 2011, 19:20. Reason: Stickied for a while
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  • Devilfish
    Administrator
    • Feb 2008
    • 7872

    #2
    I've said before that I will not hesitate to remove the shoutbox, I hate it and it adds nothing to the forum in my opinion. So keep on the way it's been going and it will be removed.

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    • ChelseaBun
      DK Veteran
      • Aug 2011
      • 832

      #3
      it's quite sad that adults need told how to behave.

      And this thread might just put people off joining the site.

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      • satsmo
        V.I.P. Member
        • Jun 2008
        • 6397

        #4
        This thread has not intention of doing so, in fact the opposite would apply. No one was told how to behave as you said most are adults and there is no need for this.

        The thread is as the title states our current stance on what should and should not go in the shout box.
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        • ChelseaBun
          DK Veteran
          • Aug 2011
          • 832

          #5
          Regardless of what was said, i don't know, didn't see it.

          Dk is a great site and very helpful (if you're looking in the right places) those who are bringing the site down are a minority and are usually quite swiftly dealt with a warning or banned. So fair play to you for posting the thread and showing it's not tolerated

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          • Lainie
            V.I.P. Member
            • Mar 2008
            • 3062

            #6
            in all honesty this thread was not needed. all that needed to happen was a word with those involved - now the whole forum is and people are speculating about this and that and snidy comments were being made nearly all day in the sb yesterday.
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            Its nice to be important, but it's more important to be nice

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            • gc1966
              DK Veteran
              • Mar 2011
              • 2434

              #7
              i do not use the shoutbox but do on occasion browse the current chat and banter that goes on in there.
              i must say i find the devilfish post somewhat blinkered with only his personal and somewhat selfish opinion being foisted on the membership.
              to say he hates and only he, will not hesitate to remove something that a lot of members enjoy is the attitude of a meglomaniac
              Last edited by gc1966; 3 November, 2011, 18:38. Reason: bad grammar

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              • daithi
                V.I.P. Member
                • May 2009
                • 2586

                #8
                havent been on much the last few days
                havent seen whats been going on
                but ive noticed the last few weeks that the sb has gotten a bit out of hand
                with people abusing others some of it is a joke between peeps
                and some of it isnt
                but in my opinion it should of been dealt with behind closed doors and not posted on the forum

                i also think the post count in the chatbox should be axed as its leading to random people posting shite in it
                even when there on there own in the ~~~~ing thing
                and pushes down other more important things that might be put on there

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                • lagerland
                  V.I.P. Member
                  • Sep 2010
                  • 6031

                  #9
                  Thats brave calling DF a meglomaniac wish i new what one was and can you eat them...............
                  I know you believe you understand what you think i said



                  >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> BUT <<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<
                  I am not sure you realise that what you heard is not what i meant ! sigpic

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                  • gc1966
                    DK Veteran
                    • Mar 2011
                    • 2434

                    #10
                    lagerland post
                    Thats brave calling DF a meglomaniac wish i new what one was and can you eat them...............
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                    Megalomania is a psycho-pathological condition characterized by delusional fantasies of power, relevance, and/or omnipotence. 'Megalomania is characterized by an inflated sense of self-esteem and overestimation by persons of their powers and beliefs'.[1] Historically it was used as an old name for narcissistic personality disorder prior to the latter's first use by Heinz Kohut in 1968, and is used these days as a non-clinical equivalent.[2][3] It is not mentioned in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM)[4] or the International Statistical Classification of Diseases (ICD).




                    d'ya think that was a tad too strong
                    Last edited by gc1966; 3 November, 2011, 19:21. Reason: my arse is going now

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                    • PremierD
                      TAMINATOR
                      • Jun 2009
                      • 13130

                      #11
                      Yes mate ..I do . You had better hope the said "Meglomaniac" doesn't get the Grey paintbrush out before me ..........

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                      • PremierD
                        TAMINATOR
                        • Jun 2009
                        • 13130

                        #12
                        Reflect on that for a Day or two mate !!!!!!!

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                        • lagerland
                          V.I.P. Member
                          • Sep 2010
                          • 6031

                          #13
                          Thanx for explanation so you cant eat them then...........
                          I know you believe you understand what you think i said



                          >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> BUT <<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<
                          I am not sure you realise that what you heard is not what i meant ! sigpic

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                          • Meat-Head
                            V.I.P. Member
                            • Oct 2009
                            • 32000

                            #14
                            Originally posted by gc1966
                            i must say i find the devilfish post somewhat blinkered with only his personal and somewhat selfish opinion
                            YOU CAN'T SAY THAT ABOUT THE CREATE OF THE WORLDS BEST WEBSITE

                            Originally posted by PremierD
                            the Grey paintbrush out before me ..........
                            Do you have any feathers or sand to add to the grey paint - this disiacble saying that about our leader.

                            Originally posted by PremierD
                            Reflect on that for a Day or two mate !!!!!!!
                            In the mean time join some inferior forums - you will then see how good DK is - the worlds best.

                            Got to go got a pizza burning.

                            sigpicWas Banned For Being Certifiably Insane and Stupid

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                            • satsmo
                              V.I.P. Member
                              • Jun 2008
                              • 6397

                              #15
                              There is every need for this thread and I did say we would listen to valid opinions but our decision is final. If people cannot accept that then this is not the forum for them.

                              This thread is now closed.
                              Last edited by satsmo; 3 November, 2011, 20:37.
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