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  • Gracemia
    Newbie
    • Sep 2011
    • 4

    #1

    Hold on or give up?

    My boyfriend went to Canada last month for his study. It will lasts two years. I dunno if i should give up or hold on this relationship. I have no idea if there is a hint of any change in our relationship when he decided to study abroad. I was so busy for my post-graduate exam last month. It was true that i had no time for him . I was not considerate as before even i have known that he would left soon. I can not go there with him cos all my families here and i will have good work in my own city too! But we have two years relationship, how can i give up? But sometimes phone calls are not enough for our relationship. Maybe we can only meet two or three times in these two years... He said nothing about our future, and just called me to tell daily life there. Maybe something really changed...but i am not sure.What should i do now? Once i asked if his feeling has changed in our relationship. He said "u r just kidding". What can i do now? I really love him...but in a sensible way, i reckon. Any one has good idea for me? Thanks a lot!
  • ecufix
    DK Veteran
    • Feb 2010
    • 2214

    #2
    Absense makes the heart grow fonder , but it is up to the two of you to decide .Sounds like you are young and
    you have your whole life ahead of you for relationships , good luck .
    Do what you can with what you have .

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    • gazz10
      V.I.P. Member
      • Mar 2008
      • 1015

      #3
      Originally posted by Gracemia
      My boyfriend went to Canada last month for his study. It will lasts two years. I dunno if i should give up or hold on this relationship. I have no idea if there is a hint of any change in our relationship when he decided to study abroad. I was so busy for my post-graduate exam last month. It was true that i had no time for him . I was not considerate as before even i have known that he would left soon. I can not go there with him cos all my families here and i will have good work in my own city too! But we have two years relationship, how can i give up? But sometimes phone calls are not enough for our relationship. Maybe we can only meet two or three times in these two years... He said nothing about our future, and just called me to tell daily life there. Maybe something really changed...but i am not sure.What should i do now? Once i asked if his feeling has changed in our relationship. He said "u r just kidding". What can i do now? I really love him...but in a sensible way, i reckon. Any one has good idea for me? Thanks a lot!


      I would like to say keep ur personal business away from the forum, if you need to talk, feel free to pm skywash he great agony aunt for all majot tabloids.


      Once again i hope u get all sorted.

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      • firestorm
        V.I.P. Member
        • Jul 2008
        • 1550

        #4
        Two years is a long time if your young and in love.And if you wait 2 years and he comes back and things dont work out well. It may be 2 good years of your life wasted waiting for some one who if they come back may not be the same person that went out there.New experiences new people in his life may change him.You should have a long good think about this and listen to your head and hart.
        Not people of internet sites
        All the best luck with your decision and i hope it works out right for you
        Peace
        If you tremble with indignation at every injustice then you are a comrade of mine

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        • super jumbe
          V.I.P. Member
          • Dec 2008
          • 11610

          #5
          Two years of relationship is a very long time, you really need the professionals advise, there are plenty just google is your best friend!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

          Do not make a finale decision without consulting the professional.

          I wish you all the luck.

          Tools owned: Hammer, Chisel, Crowbar, Punch, Chainsaw, Cutter and Brain!!!

          Did you know People will question all the good things they hear about you but believe all the bad without a second thought.

          Note:
          All information given is to be used for educational purposes only and should not be taken seriously.

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          • jcgrumbles
            DK Veteran
            • Nov 2010
            • 944

            #6
            Give it up,if he hasnt got the decency to give you any straight answers then the chances are he will be throwing his leg over anything that moves over there,just think about it,in two years you could have had enough penis to make a handrail from here to canada,and he wants you to wait for him to get back?Forget about it,if you get back together later on well ok,but for the time being get a life.....

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            • nara
              DK Veteran
              • May 2008
              • 2586

              #7
              We seem to have a lot of new posters recently asking for relationship advice in their first post.

              Are our Google meta tags in order?
              He who laughs last probably didn't get the joke.

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              • Johnner
                Admin Assistant
                • Jun 2010
                • 7069

                #8
                I'm losing the will to live reading these posts !!


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                • ron007
                  Member
                  • Aug 2011
                  • 81

                  #9
                  The fact that your asking complete strangers for advice say's something

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                  • ChelseaBun
                    DK Veteran
                    • Aug 2011
                    • 832

                    #10
                    Relationships :: Cosmopolitan UK

                    (link to a forum which may be of help...sorry if it's against rules, didn't think it would matter too much, it's not another sat forum )

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                    • maca
                      Mr. DK DJ
                      • Feb 2009
                      • 6310

                      #11
                      Listen bitch im not coming home now ~~~~ off and leave me alone with me beers and hoe's ........

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                      • lagerland
                        V.I.P. Member
                        • Sep 2010
                        • 6031

                        #12
                        GIVE UP..............
                        I know you believe you understand what you think i said



                        >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> BUT <<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<
                        I am not sure you realise that what you heard is not what i meant ! sigpic

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                        • RedSpider
                          DK Veteran
                          • Feb 2009
                          • 2448

                          #13
                          come and see uncle spider... i'll make you forget about him
                          Syntax Error : Integer Out Of Range



                          Hooray For Tits & Fannies

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                          • tshirtman
                            V.I.P. Member
                            • Dec 2008
                            • 1345

                            #14
                            is your uncle the head of the army?
                            do you have 50 million billion shekels that need transferring to another bank account?
                            are you a caring woman who will send us a picture of themselves?
                            do you need my back account details?
                            have you had all your Hotmail accounts suspended?

                            all these posts look very familiar to shite I get in my email junk folder.
                            !retupmoc eht ni deppart m'I !pleH

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                            • super jumbe
                              V.I.P. Member
                              • Dec 2008
                              • 11610

                              #15
                              There maybe plenty of sharks in the sea, but she is in love with this man***8230;***8230;

                              The reason could be simple he could be dead or got married.


                              Tools owned: Hammer, Chisel, Crowbar, Punch, Chainsaw, Cutter and Brain!!!

                              Did you know People will question all the good things they hear about you but believe all the bad without a second thought.

                              Note:
                              All information given is to be used for educational purposes only and should not be taken seriously.

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