Alcohol Problem

[garry1312]

Aah heres hoping a just loose the beer belly then put nothing back on

So snappy right now also.

[lagerland]

Keep up the good work gaz you no its for the best be lucky mate..............

[happy_highlander]

Aah heres hoping a just loose the beer belly then put nothing back on

So snappy right now also.

I'm sure theres a pretty decent thai boxing club in falkirk mate if you need to get rid of that pent up stuff. I fought one of their lads for the scottish title. I lost that day but won the rematch good honest controlled aggression and a ~~~~in great kick in the balls will sort you out

[garry1312]

funny you should mention that was just thinking there how id love a punch bag right now

[menko]

You'll have to stock up a bit more on food now. You gon be hungry without all those calories

[Belloriccoefamoso]

how is with your child?

[aleister crowley]

It is over between me and my partner and although she is clearly over me I cannot get her out of my head even if I try. I wish I had the chance to prove that im not that guy now.

It isn't over mate. If she thought that then she would NEVER EVER leave you in charge of your child. She would have denied all access because of your drinking...but she hasn't.
She has faith in you as a father and you are building that trust every day. Her love for you wouldn't just evaporate. She is hurt,probably badly, but she still trusts you enough to look after your son.
Take it day by day and don't expect too much.

[cactikid]

hi m8 keep the faith you never know what the future brings

[dustymech]

my experience and opinion

Garry,
Just came across your post. You have taken a huge step by realizing you have a problem. That always needs to be the first step in changing your ways.

I was about your age when I realized I had a drinking problem. I was able as you seem to have done and quit on my own. It was hard to be around the people / things I was with or do when I would drink, but I kept doing them and left the drink alone.

It took me about 15 years to try a drink again. Today I can buy a case of beer and it can last up to a month for me. I feel I am one of the lucky few that can do that.

My advise, leave it alone totally. Nothing even when you are out to eat, or with friends, or at home alone, or just ever. It is to easy to slip when you say I can handle 1 to go to saying I can handle 2, that leads to falling off that wagon. Stay away from the edge. Maybe someday you can enjoy that pint when you go to eat, but I wouldn't recommend that now.

As for CB, she may be gone but is probably just so hurt and betrayed. It is hard to get past that, but she must have some faith in you to leave your son with you. She would otherwise want to be close when he visits, just in case.

Mainly remember that your son needs his father and YOU need him. Draw on that for strength to get through when ever you feel you need a drink.

Best of luck.

[Music73]

I have just come across this thread and haven't been able to put it down.. I really just wanted to say... Good luck Gary...

I wish you all the best in your ongoing battle against your vices.

Hope everything sorts its self out with your relationship, if not good luck with the future you have the strength and will power to succeed and make a great new life for yourself and your son.

All the best..

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[cgscott]

Hows things Garry?

[daithi]

Hows things Garry?

just thinking the same hope all is well mate

[cactikid]

stop hiding and give us a progress report m8.

[cgscott]

Hows things garry. Not heard from youin a while?

[cgscott]

Hope everythings well mate.