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  • garry1312
    DK Veteran
    • Oct 2010
    • 2178

    #1

    Acceptable age gap in a relationship. your views?

    So what is an acceptable age gap?

    Going by the law for instance someone of 16 could be in a legal and sexual relationship with someone in there 50's.

    There is 10 years give or take between my mother and father. Met her when she was 18 and he was 28.

    Here I am now 28. I could not go with a 16 year old 😂 for a start what would we even have in common.

    So what is an acceptable age gap?


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  • DOUGALMCD
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    • May 2011
    • 3229

    #2
    I think you answered your own question. I know a lot of folk with age gap and you can see the differences but they all claim love prevails. You don't always need the same interests but you do need common ones hence same age group same common interests. Go with someone younger they may look after you in old age. Other way you look after them. A lot of younger people will entertain relationship with older people mainly because of sugar daddy or mummy making it easier start in life's big cauldron. If it's one night stands then who cares both benefit.

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    • HappyBob
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      • Sep 2015
      • 2

      #3
      My wife is 9 years older then me, and about 10x hotter then me , but I dont think it matters, I love her not matter how old she was, its just personal preferences.

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      • garry1312
        DK Veteran
        • Oct 2010
        • 2178

        #4
        I always go for your younger, but big age gap even for me generally no more than 4 years. Think I may be following in my father's footsteps .

        To be fair nice lassie, in contact each day but when it comes to taking it any further it doesn't progress unsure if it's down to the same doubts I have or game playing �� same time though can't say anything fortnight ago it was me that was brushing it off. Definitely something there.

        Probably just to old to work out what


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        • Meat-Head
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          • Oct 2009
          • 32000

          #5
          Sisters first husband 7 years older, replacement 8 years younger.

          the age DIFFERANCE (i~~~~ Failiure) between MHM members (combined) is 30 years, but no issuses

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          • super jumbe
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            • Dec 2008
            • 11610

            #6
            Originally posted by HappyBob
            My wife is 9 years older then me, and about 10x hotter then me , but I dont think it matters, I love her not matter how old she was, its just personal preferences.
            10x hotter
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            • garry1312
              DK Veteran
              • Oct 2010
              • 2178

              #7
              In all honesty round here I'm not sure what's happened to my age group. Stuff injected in to there lips, under the eyebrow tattoos.

              If I met a lassie my age and wasn't plastic had a good personality then fair enough. Age doesn't play the role. I have just found from experience that I've went for younger.

              Personality and natural beauty are more important than some stuck up, self centered lassie, face made up like a plastic Barbie doll.

              I don't think either of us have went out our way in the hope of something happening. We just seem to be clicking but at times forget but when it comes down to it both have reservations about the age gap.

              The age gap doesn't bother me as in anyone else's opinion, that's it, its theres. It doesnt bother me that we probably have different social life's, how many partners do?

              Joking aside she's a really nice lassie, we enjoy each others company and very mature. Funnily enough can't say the same for some others around my age.

              I'd just worry I'd hold her back, not in anyway intentionally. She is also a young mum. So a lot of her time is taken up with being a parent, totally understand that.

              I dont know case of boot up both of our bums and see what happens or see it as wrong time, wrong place.


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              • Meat-Head
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                • Oct 2009
                • 32000

                #8
                If you get a plastic bird, not going to go rusty that's for sure

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                • gc1966
                  DK Veteran
                  • Mar 2011
                  • 2434

                  #9
                  at least you would get a cheap date
                  how much is a happy meal?????

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                  • ifred
                    DK Veteran
                    • Jun 2010
                    • 1627

                    #10
                    Meaty's got a good one there
                    Slight risk of deflation but that's easily patched
                    Fleshy ones you have a risk of inflation on fuel and maintenance cost.
                    IMO high mileage models are well run in and proven, but risk bits falling off!
                    New model defiantly sporty but could drop a piston
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                    • Mjolinor
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                      • Jan 2009
                      • 1093

                      #11
                      Whatever age it is there is still the ECU software that is totally unfathomable to normal males and buggy as hell.

                      Whenever you need it to do something that should be pre-programmed it ends up costing new handbags or shoes.

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                      • GastonJ
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                        • Dec 2009
                        • 5505

                        #12
                        Noisy ECU's can be made to go quiet, just make sure that you use the right port and interface
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                        • ifred
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                          • Jun 2010
                          • 1627

                          #13
                          Gaston I usually find a good curry and a couple of pints fixs it
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                          • Johnner
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                            • Jun 2010
                            • 7069

                            #14
                            Originally posted by garry1312
                            In all honesty round here I'm not sure what's happened to my age group. Stuff injected in to there lips, under the eyebrow tattoos.

                            If I met a lassie my age and wasn't plastic had a good personality then fair enough. Age doesn't play the role. I have just found from experience that I've went for younger.

                            Personality and natural beauty are more important than some stuck up, self centered lassie, face made up like a plastic Barbie doll.

                            I don't think either of us have went out our way in the hope of something happening. We just seem to be clicking but at times forget but when it comes down to it both have reservations about the age gap.

                            The age gap doesn't bother me as in anyone else's opinion, that's it, its theres. It doesnt bother me that we probably have different social life's, how many partners do?

                            Joking aside she's a really nice lassie, we enjoy each others company and very mature. Funnily enough can't say the same for some others around my age.

                            I'd just worry I'd hold her back, not in anyway intentionally. She is also a young mum. So a lot of her time is taken up with being a parent, totally understand that.

                            I dont know case of boot up both of our bums and see what happens or see it as wrong time, wrong place.











                            Hey Garry,piece of advice here....


                            If the two of you are comfortable with each other,roll off each other(not literally),get along,etc,and your gut instinct doesn't tell you anything different,then go with it.

                            Time has a way of sorting these details out.Forget about the age thing,seriously....

                            As she's a young mum,support her as best you can,she will really appreciate it(Even though you're in a jock,at the moment)

                            Have fun,you two
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                            • Meat-Head
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                              • Oct 2009
                              • 32000

                              #15
                              ON TOPICISH

                              Whilst stalking, Accudently came across lad same MY and went to skool with.

                              his WIFE Ming, guff, 9 years older than him, looks rougher than a dawgs arse.
                              proper minger

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