Meeting people in nightclubs

[bigguns247]

Is it just me but as a single man age 35, when I meet a woman who says shes single and comes on to me, (as actually Im very very shy around women and always think before hand that they wont be interested in me or they are already involved with someone) so i never make the first move because of fear of rejection. That I get warned off from their friends, i.e male friends of the woman will aggressivley warn me away (no matter how big or young they are!), or the female friends of the woman will drag her away from me, surly its her business who she wished to talk/get to know so why not let them get on with it. This has happened on quite a few occations. All I want is so have a good night out and hopefully meet a nice woman and see how it goes, and can't do with the aggro that I get when out. I've been single for over a year and a half, but feel it wouldn't have been so long without these other people interferring all the time. I'm 5'11 former bodybuilder, still weigh a muscluar 17 stone and a black belt in sku karate but i am humble with everyone i meet and never go out looking for trouble or instigate it, so i just let it drop, but also i've had women assume without knowing anything about me that I'm a womaniser, because of how I look? and dress! (I wear Hugo Boss, D&G etc but thats the look (style of clothes i like) I.e friends and work collegues both male and female tell me I'm a beautiful handsome man and can't believe that i'm unattached (which i always find hard to believe), I see other "ordinary" blokes meeting women all the time yet I always end up going home by myself every Saturday night with no one to arrange a date with. Where am i gong wrong! Everyone my age is in a relationship and don't have any single friends to set me up with so i have to stick with going out and meet people face to face, i've had two long term relationships (over five years each, married one but now sadly separated and getting divorced) and a few casual meets in the past, so its not as if I can't make relationships (kind of) work, but can't seem to get going at this stage in my life, anyone experiancing the same outlook? Whats your story?

[Cronus]

You must have an incredibly small cock and the word has got round,thats all I can say.

[Lainie]

show me ur pic and i will tell you what i think

[wongers]

show me ur pic and i will tell you what i think

assuming you'v read the post before yours lainie what part of his body do you want a pictue of

[Lainie]

all of it

[daithi]

hes looking for suggestions not jokes peeps

[gmb45]

easy, just sit the corner of the night club licking your eyebrows, sorted m8

[Lainie]

i wasnt making a joke of it

[dctyper]

jelousy thats all, just ignore em

dc

[thered]

Is it just me but as a single man age 35, when I meet a woman who says shes single and comes on to me, (as actually Im very very shy around women and always think before hand that they wont be interested in me or they are already involved with someone) so i never make the first move because of fear of rejection. That I get warned off from their friends, i.e male friends of the woman will aggressivley warn me away (no matter how big or young they are!), or the female friends of the woman will drag her away from me, surly its her business who she wished to talk/get to know so why not let them get on with it. This has happened on quite a few occations. All I want is so have a good night out and hopefully meet a nice woman and see how it goes, and can't do with the aggro that I get when out. I've been single for over a year and a half, but feel it wouldn't have been so long without these other people interferring all the time. I'm 5'11 former bodybuilder, still weigh a muscluar 17 stone and a black belt in sku karate but i am humble with everyone i meet and never go out looking for trouble or instigate it, so i just let it drop, but also i've had women assume without knowing anything about me that I'm a womaniser, because of how I look? and dress! (I wear Hugo Boss, D&G etc but thats the look (style of clothes i like) I.e friends and work collegues both male and female tell me I'm a beautiful handsome man and can't believe that i'm unattached (which i always find hard to believe), I see other "ordinary" blokes meeting women all the time yet I always end up going home by myself every Saturday night with no one to arrange a date with. Where am i gong wrong! Everyone my age is in a relationship and don't have any single friends to set me up with so i have to stick with going out and meet people face to face, i've had two long term relationships (over five years each, married one but now sadly separated and getting divorced) and a few casual meets in the past, so its not as if I can't make relationships (kind of) work, but can't seem to get going at this stage in my life, anyone experiancing the same outlook? Whats your story?

i can only offer advice as i am massively popular with the ladies of any age married single whatever i can pull em all

now that might sound like im blowing me own trumpet and i am but its true and its all about confidence i am totally 100% confident i can pull anyone i think every woman wants me whether or not they know it at that time they will do in the future
some girls hate me and think im arrogant (well at least thats what they say to there m8s or boyfriends) i am but i normally ended up with them at some point (fine line between love and hate) because women dont say what they mean
nowadays im not as bad as i used to be (cos i rarely go out mainly) but i still have the power as mrs red knows only too well she follows me round barking and growling at anyone who looks or talks to me

as im writing it might sound like i love meself and tbh i dont in normal circumstances im actually quite shy (which people dont believe) because i mask it. its when i go out i am a different person and my ego needs feeding i change its not even that i just like sleepin with women i find the chase better than the catch in most cases i just like the buzz and the boost to the self esteem

from what i read in your post you have problems pulling cos you hide behind your clothes and you gym physique which you use as a penis extension, you need to put yourself out ooze confidence and make them feel special,whisk them off there feet its no good standing there like a book end thinking you just have to stand there looking pretty to pull

im nearly 34 now so im at a similar age and i have no problems you just got to move in on em,eye contact is the best weapon you know when someone likes you or not if you make it with someone find an excuse to go over,read the signs too if your in a group and someone starts to get a bit closer and talk to you your in

theres no excuses you just got to make the move rejections are non existent if you can read the signs and the looks women give off

[davieboy.rfc]

Is it just me but as a single man age 35, when I meet a woman who says shes single and comes on to me, (as actually Im very very shy around women and always think before hand that they wont be interested in me or they are already involved with someone) so i never make the first move because of fear of rejection. That I get warned off from their friends, i.e male friends of the woman will aggressivley warn me away (no matter how big or young they are!), or the female friends of the woman will drag her away from me, surly its her business who she wished to talk/get to know so why not let them get on with it. This has happened on quite a few occations. All I want is so have a good night out and hopefully meet a nice woman and see how it goes, and can't do with the aggro that I get when out. I've been single for over a year and a half, but feel it wouldn't have been so long without these other people interferring all the time. I'm 5'11 former bodybuilder, still weigh a muscluar 17 stone and a black belt in sku karate but i am humble with everyone i meet and never go out looking for trouble or instigate it, so i just let it drop, but also i've had women assume without knowing anything about me that I'm a womaniser, because of how I look? and dress! (I wear Hugo Boss, D&G etc but thats the look (style of clothes i like) I.e friends and work collegues both male and female tell me I'm a beautiful handsome man and can't believe that i'm unattached (which i always find hard to believe), I see other "ordinary" blokes meeting women all the time yet I always end up going home by myself every Saturday night with no one to arrange a date with. Where am i gong wrong! Everyone my age is in a relationship and don't have any single friends to set me up with so i have to stick with going out and meet people face to face, i've had two long term relationships (over five years each, married one but now sadly separated and getting divorced) and a few casual meets in the past, so its not as if I can't make relationships (kind of) work, but can't seem to get going at this stage in my life, anyone experiancing the same outlook? Whats your story?

instead of goin to niteclubs & tryin to pick up some slapper why not ask one of your single work colleagues out for a drink as your already comfortable in there company..

[chroma]

Is it just me but as a single man age 35, when I meet a woman who says shes single and comes on to me, (as actually Im very very shy around women and always think before hand that they wont be interested in me or they are already involved with someone) so i never make the first move because of fear of rejection. That I get warned off from their friends, i.e male friends of the woman will aggressivley warn me away (no matter how big or young they are!), or the female friends of the woman will drag her away from me, surly its her business who she wished to talk/get to know so why not let them get on with it. This has happened on quite a few occations. All I want is so have a good night out and hopefully meet a nice woman and see how it goes, and can't do with the aggro that I get when out. I've been single for over a year and a half, but feel it wouldn't have been so long without these other people interferring all the time. I'm 5'11 former bodybuilder, still weigh a muscluar 17 stone and a black belt in sku karate but i am humble with everyone i meet and never go out looking for trouble or instigate it, so i just let it drop, but also i've had women assume without knowing anything about me that I'm a womaniser, because of how I look? and dress! (I wear Hugo Boss, D&G etc but thats the look (style of clothes i like) I.e friends and work collegues both male and female tell me I'm a beautiful handsome man and can't believe that i'm unattached (which i always find hard to believe), I see other "ordinary" blokes meeting women all the time yet I always end up going home by myself every Saturday night with no one to arrange a date with. Where am i gong wrong! Everyone my age is in a relationship and don't have any single friends to set me up with so i have to stick with going out and meet people face to face, i've had two long term relationships (over five years each, married one but now sadly separated and getting divorced) and a few casual meets in the past, so its not as if I can't make relationships (kind of) work, but can't seem to get going at this stage in my life, anyone experiancing the same outlook? Whats your story?

Pretty much in the same boat pal.
I tend to avoid clubs cause its filled with skimpy little airheads though and i feel like a right pedo.

Just got my divorce finalised and finding out that the dating circuit is a complete and utter nightmare.

I tend to pick up by walking the dog, meeting people in the supermarket and causing mayhem by getting involved with workmates (or not as is often the case)

Hook ups from friends tend to go south pretty fast and cause all kinds of hurt feelngs, man have i got stories.

Im with you all the way, its a complete nightmare out there and far removed from the memories i had as a young guy trying to get my leg over on a saturday night. I still keep trucking though and suggest you do the same, its all a matter of statistics, someone says no and just take it on the chin, play the numbers and someone will eventualy say yes

that being said, statistics are utter bullshit, cause when you think about it, 9 out of 10 people enjoy gang rape... blows math out of the water really ::

[Lainie]

i know people knock internet dating sites etc but honestly there are a lot of lonely people out there not in the social circle or has the confidence too to meet someone. as they say dont knock it till you have tried it. i met a few absolute crackers (my god the lies they tell) before i met my boyfriend online. the beauty of the internet is you can get to know people by email, msn etc before moving on to texting and phoning. then by the time you meet you know each other a bit and have more to talk about. if they wont meet up for any reason well you know they are not all they are saying they are etc.

good luck - i hope you find someone.

[Titans]

i enjoys going out and wants to meet people