How to tell if he likes me or not?! ?

[Fellianis Wig]

I'm 20 and I quite like this guy who's 45 (I know people will be quick to judge but whatever) we're both single. He works in a hotel bar, some of my friends work as the entertainment staff doing shows there so at least once a week I go watch a show which is how I met this guy.... He never let's me pay for my drinks or tip him, and he's told the other barstaff to not charge me too, he says I'm practically part of the hotel family and they dont charge family.

We talk and get on well, and sometimes we catch each other like looking at each other and we both laugh. Last night I was about to go home and he kissed me on the cheek (he is spanish so thats pretty normal though) and gave me another drink and said to wait another hour coz he finishes then so I was like hmm ok. When he was finishing he brought a shot over for me (i don't usually do shots so this was a random thing) and he had one too then asked me if I wanted to go for a quick drink somewhere else so I said yeah.

We walked to this other bar and when we were there another one of his work mates was already there and sat with us, so I don't know if he invited me out like just us 2 and we just bumped into this guy or if he already knew he was there and it was just a friendly communal thing... I don't mind anyway! So the three of us sat talking... And at one point he stood with his arm around me like hugging me but only for like a min. Then after a couple of drinks he said he had to go coz he had work early but said 'but this weekend we can drink until whenever!' (so I guess we're going out again?!) and well that's it really! I just cant figure out if he likes me or if he's just really friendly!!! How can I tell?! (without asking him bluntly or making a move ha!)

before I offer any advice how much do you weigh ?

[lee_hdi]

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[jakejiang]

i would like to say ,what matters is not the age but if you two like each other

[gc1966]

jakejiang; would like to say ,what matters is not the age but if you two like each other




as the priest said to the choirboy

[racin-snake]

Nara, if you fancy the tits off shadyback why not just say under your own name?? Your a big fool for making a new account to do the latter..

@shady, do you like him?? if so tell him and we can get on with out lives..

i think we might have a DK couple right here ahhhh bless

i like nara

i wish you both well

but id seriously be looking at this advice before committing shady

hes too old for you pet,imagine you wake up one morning lying next to a seventy year old bag of bones with his teeth in a cup and hes stinking of shit,sweat and garlic....but if you want to shag him now go for it

[Meat-Head]

love him long time?

Did you notice if there was any mention of "Ride me like a jockey"
or "Sucky sucky"?

[C64]

i'm 50, i like you. where you live, are you female, probably should have asked that first

i'll let you share my bone

Glad your Doc renewed you Viagra prescription Dog.

[Liteace]

not often im lost for words but surely you are not serious making that your first post on an internet forum. this is not a dating agency . havent you got friends you could ask? he is old enough to be your father - enough said.

agree with that, when your 40 and gagging for it he at 65 will be asleep

[MrFug]

My nephew recently enlightened me to 'the formula'. For men, you're most compatible age for a partner is: half your current age + 7.

In my case that would be 21. Sounds good to me!

[gc1966]

mr fug post
My nephew recently enlightened me to 'the formula'. For men, you're most compatible age for a partner is: half your current age + 7.

In my case that would be 21. Sounds good to me!


nice idea but a little unworkable in my honest opinion,
say you start to play the horizontal hokey kokey at 16 your partner should be fifteen (illegal) and so on and so forth.
you need to change them with startling regularity as you enter into your twenties which his fine cos you are still able to work all day,hit the town with your best dancing pants on,drink ten pints,pick one up,drag her back to your cave and manage to get it up just by sniffing her shoes and trapping your best m8 in the wardrobe door a couple of times

unfortunately,as you progress in years this becomes tiresome and your best m8 ends up battered and bruised

is your nephew a scientist ?????

[Canker_Canison]

The half your age plus 7 isn't the optimal age for your partner....it's the lowest acceptable age where you might stand a chance of it working.

Hell, most men will 'do' whatever they can get their hands on without resorting to chloraform.

[gc1966]

canker
The half your age plus 7 isn't the optimal age for your partner....it's the lowest acceptable age where you might stand a chance of it working.

Hell, most men will 'do' whatever they can get their hands on without resorting to chloraform


simple rule of thumb,if they are young enough to have been sired by someone your age then it is unacceptable in my opinion.

[Canker_Canison]

simple rule of thumb,if they are young enough to have been sired by someone your age then it is unacceptable in my opinion.

In todays world that equates to 12 years, given the rate of preteen pregnancies. This would put me at 26 year olds, the same as the half your age plus 7.

I feel cheated. I want an 18 year old to play with

[ecufix]

just to add...i'm 20 and my dad isn't even 45 yet... Someones clearly got daddy issues


totally don't get the whole deal with older men...sure they might have 'experience' but in a few years time they just won't have the stamina and will be needing to rely on the viagra kicking in before they can do much plus...they're oooold!

Dont forget to add money , to pay for the " free " drinks

[Meat-Head]

still no more input from O/P