Should you move in together?

[super jumbe]

It's a big step in any relationship and you have to be ready to give up certain things to reap the benefits.

You don't truly know someone until you've removed their hair from your plughole. Moving in together is generally regarded as an inevitable step in any meaningful relationship, but it can be hard to keep the romance alive when you?re stuck in domestic drudgery.

Even though moving in together offers more pitfalls than you could cram into a removals lorry, it could also be the making of your relationship. Get it right, and it will cement your long-term future and offer an emotional security that you never imagined you'd experience.

Is it a good idea living together before marriage?




Personally more sex. For the first few months, anyway!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Snowy79]

As I always say to my married friends when they ask me "what I'm doing tomorrow?" I usually reply "What I want." Having been in relationships where we've lived apart and when we've lived together I'd never live with someone again.

When you live apart your partner never gets PMT. Move her in and one week a month your life is hell. Live apart and the things you leave lying around are still there when you want them. Move her in and she'll hide it away then forget where she out it. Live apart and you decide you want to do something yourself tomorrow you do it. Move her in and prepare for the emotional blackmail, why do you want to be away from me, don't you love me anymore, I don't like you hanging around with that guy,girl, prostitute etc. Prepare to get your brain mushed watching shitty soaps. Your living room taken over by cushions and don't even go there with the bathroom.

Nope stay living apart and save a life.

[lagerland]

My old ladys a diaomomd she just lets me get on with it no hassell works for us withch is just as well coz i dont listen............

[cactikid]

if you want to move in together a blow up doll will have no say in it at all,best of all no arguments

[ChelseaBun]

course you should live together before marriage.

when you get married and then move in together, theres an added pressure of making things work being in each others space 24/7, how can you be 100% that would work? that is a huge gamble to take, where as renting a place, its risk free really isn't it? if things aren't great and you need to split up you can, being married its almost as if you have to make things work, but thats not how a relationship should be at all, thats not healthy.

In saying that though, every relationship needs arguments, they need to be able to know what the best way to make up is and how each other handles with different situations, and they need to know that they can get on being in each others faces 24/7.

[gc1966]

i get no hassle from the wife,we both have our own interests and trundle along quite nicely,i do what i want when i want and she does exactly the same.

i gave up asking what she gets up to years ago cos she would probably tell me and i would then have to feign interest and i genuinely can not be arsed.

[lagerland]

If you didnt live together b4 marriage that be like buying a pair of shoes without trying them on...............

[ChelseaBun]

If you didnt live together b4 marriage that be like buying a pair of shoes without trying them on...............

i do that, doesn't matter whether they're comfy or not, as long as they're pretty. no pain, no gain

[Meat-Head]

What have a non VIP member sharing the same computer?

What about all the dodgy files?

[gc1966]

What have a non VIP member sharing the same computer?

What about all the dodgy files?

just not tell her or by haira loptap of er own and refoose to give the paswerd to dk
simples

[johnboy1974]

Me and the mrs been together 5 years now and i only see her at weekends when i stay at hers. This for me keeps it exiting and fresh. To move in together might change things. Just now we look forward to seeing each other every weekend.

[patkins]

This is a personal choice between two grown people and if they are ok with it then do it.
26 years ago before the missus and I tied the knot I could safely say that back then it would have been much frowned upon.
Today I wouldn't give a s*it.
My 21 year old lad has the girlfriend staying over on Saturday nights and both sleep in a double bed next to ours.
You know what? I've just figured out what that creaking noise on a Saturday night is.

[Snowy79]

One reason relationships don't work The reason some women stay single ... - YouTube

[Miklo]

I'll pass on this for the time being

[Meat-Head]

Me and the mrs been together 5 years now and i only see her at weekends .

Is it you in prison or her?