Should you move in together?

[Canker_Canison]

In saying that though, every relationship needs arguments, they need to be able to know what the best way to make up is and how each other handles with different situations, and they need to know that they can get on being in each others faces 24/7.

I hate arguments, they are counter productive. You should be able to communicate enough to avoid arguments. It also means a lot of 'give & take' on both sides. As soon as the flow stops, one side will dig their heels in & start shit.

I knew someone who always started arguments with whoever she was with.... just for the 'make up' sex.

She had some serious issues.

Me and the mrs been together 5 years now and i only see her at weekends when i stay at hers. This for me keeps it exiting and fresh. To move in together might change things. Just now we look forward to seeing each other every weekend.

Good on ya. I've been with my Mrs for about 18 months now. Normally moving in together would have happened already. But not this time. She has her place & two kids, one in school & the other in college, I have my place. I go to hers mid week for tea & a normal family evening, she comes to mine for the weekend where we can get our freak on as there are no kids here

It works really well.

My 21 year old lad has the girlfriend staying over on Saturday nights and both sleep in a double bed next to ours.
You know what? I've just figured out what that creaking noise on a Saturday night is.

Now that's a close family.... Maybe too close

[ChelseaBun]

I hate arguments, they are counter productive.

it depends on what you're arguing about. sometimes arguing is inevitable, and its how you resolve them that says a lot about the relationship.

every relationships different, for me, personally, i wouldn't want to be with someone who agrees with me 100% of the time, plus with the baby there, he needs to see and be taught a range of emotions, and being shown that its okay to have fall outs and how to rightly move on from them, that's a skill he will need and use in life. well, in my opinion

[r3gill]

forgiveness is the biggest thing from my point of view for both. Can't just keep poisoning your mind you have to forgive, else it will end in a hurry.

[Johnner]

Originally Posted by patkins
My 21 year old lad has the girlfriend staying over on Saturday nights and both sleep in a double bed next to ours.
You know what? I've just figured out what that creaking noise on a Saturday night is


Jesus Pat,I know it's hard to let go of the kids,but keeping them beside you ?

[patkins]

Originally Posted by patkins
My 21 year old lad has the girlfriend staying over on Saturday nights and both sleep in a double bed next to ours.
You know what? I've just figured out what that creaking noise on a Saturday night is.

I meant in the next room.What like, do ya think we're pervs?

[garry1312]

Personally I think people should live together before getting married it allows them to find out if they can actually live under the same roof and survive it.

I am with CB relationships need arguments two people cannot always agree on everything and each person has there own views. You cannot be in a relationship and be scared to express your opinion.

What I find about people that say there in a relationship and never have a single argument is that:

A: There talking crap

or

B: There relationship tends not to last

I can happily say I am in a relationship that we argue in and I love it, would not want it any other way.

Arguments are another test of the strength of your relationship.

[Lainie]

20 odd years ago i got married as my mother would not allow him to stay overnight and would have been ashamed if we had lived together. i wanted to get married as i also felt living together normally goes nowhere. no commitment etc.

now i kinda live full time with my b/f in his house. we get on fantastic and he can go out with his mates when he wants. i do with mine as well. we dont live in each others pockets. never in a million years would i give up my friends for a man and id never expect him to do so either.

[konatist]

You have to move in together it's sort of the final steps before either something bigger, or if that's not ur thing just enjoying what it is.